Where alcohol and emotions flow freely chances are people can say rude stuff. This case is frequent at weddings. It can bring out the best in a person or can bring obnoxious behavior in the pleasant environment of your wedding. The following article will tell you how to tackle these intoxicated statements without creating a scene.
“Are you confident that you’re ready?”
Translation: This may come from an un-married friend. Since they don’t believe in long-term commitments, it’s difficult for them to digest your step towards marriage.
Quick comeback: Reply with full confidence and tell your friend that you and your fiancé’s love is eternal and both of you want to be together.
“This marriage will not last.”
Translation: this may come from a divorced member of your family or friends. It maybe something from the past or that person may not be comfortable with good new or good happenings. The person may be a pessimistic type.
Quick comeback: Relax, take it lightly and ignore such statements. Think of it as drunken rage or someone letting out their pessimism.
“Your engagement was too long.”
Translation: An engagement that has been on for over a year is deemed excessive by a lot of folk. But some think it’s necessary to solve any issues and to pull together everything.
Quick comeback: This is a good comeback. Just tell them that you are saving money for your wedding since all agents are booked for a year and are quite expensive too.
“Your engagement was too short.”
Translation: If your fiancé and you have decided to be engaged for a small period then this might be shocking news for some people. Any person who says these words doubts the time you will have to plan your wedding.
Quick comeback: Be calm. Assure them that you have ample of time to plan a wedding or you plan to hire a wedding planner.
“Is that ring you really desired?”
Translation: This may rise from jealousy. Engagement rings can be small or big. The ring you are getting is probably a focus of all their envious and jealous feelings for you.
Quick comeback: Tell that person how happy you and your fiancé are. This will shift their focus from the ring and removing all negative vibes.
“That is an ugly bridesmaid.”
Translation: If a bridesmaid complains about her dress then she’s probably strapped for her cash. She was probably thinking that you would pick something cheaper. Your pick may be hideous.
Quick comeback: Try finding out what she likes and what she doesn’t. Let her pick her own colors and silhouette.
“That’s an amazing idea, I’ll do it on my wedding.”
Translation: It fuels your anger when a friend plans on stealing your wedding idea. Calm down -appreciate it. Consider it a compliment, your ideas amaze your friend and are steering her towards a different direction.
Quick comeback: With your acceptance and agreement, tell your friend that the idea will be perfect for their wedding. Yet she should personalize the theme to fit her personality and style.