Women always want their marital life to be beautiful like the moon. But, they don’t understand that moon and moonlight are two separate things. The moon without a moonlight is like a book without words… It’s the moonlight which makes the moon beautiful.
Your married life is also like a moon. If you want to make your married life beautiful then you need to scatter the beautiful moonlight on it. And, it’s in your power. You have to understand your power, and you need to use it properly.
Here I am telling you 3 exclusive steps which will make your man fall in love with you and help you to scatter moonlight of happiness in your relationship.
Step 1: Don’t Play Hard to Get, Play Hard to Forget
Often enough, some women tend to make terrible mistakes in their marital life, unconsciously. They believe that the rules of dating life can be applied in marital life too. And, on this thinking, they keep up like a mountain and put their future at stake.
When you play hard to forget, you play a key role in enhancing your marital life happiness. You attract your husband and engage with him on an emotional level. You occupy his mind and heart. You become a valuable asset of his life.
Some people say that men are fond of changes. But, I do disagree with this statement. Because, there are some things which make men happy when they are repeated again and again. Those things are the fundamental needs of men. In other words, if I tell you, they are like a tree trunk. If you’ll keep the tree trunk strong, then the flowers of love will always shower on you from the branches.
“For being unforgettable, you have to satisfy his eyes, his heart, and his belly.” For example,
1) You have to wear what he loves,
2) You have to be a great cook.
3) You have to give him outstanding sex.
These three things are the fundamental needs of every man. When you repeat these three things again and again, your man stays happy. He doesn’t forget you. You always stay in his mind and heart. And, he finds every possible reason in order to stay with you.
Step 2: Look For New Ways to Love Him
After meeting the primary needs of your man, this 2nd step will scatter the moonlight of happiness in your relationship. You’ll frequently take a shower in that moonlight, and people will envy you.
When we see the same food again and again in our plate, the food appears disgusting. We try to get other types of food. Even we get ready to eat those foods which we normally don’t eat. The condition of a man is like a plate. When he gets the same environment repeatedly, he gets bored. His heart and mind starts to run on a specific boring pattern and stops flourishing.
Constantly changing environment keeps his heart and mind active. Every little change motivates him and keeps his feelings dynamic; he engages with you on an emotional level.
Here I want to clear one thing, no major changes are necessary. Even small changes are enough to make the love of your relationship exclusive. All you need is to look for new ways to love him. For example: Sleep in his shirt, dance in flower fields with him, paint each other, offer up a massage, smell the flowers, kiss him before he finishes his sentence, or tell him unique stories of your daily life.
When you love your man with new small methods, he always looks at you with love. He feels relaxed in your presence. He runs towards you for being happy. In a way, you become his most important need.
Step 3: Focus on the Pattern, Not the Person
Several times misunderstandings are embedded inside a person to such an extent that he loses his happiness with his own hands. Especially, in married life, we are committed to this kind of mistake. We examine our partners through our own eyes only and find many errors in them.
It’s always been our endeavor to turn our partner into our favorite personality. Consequently, in this endeavor, we continue to see our marital life getting ruined.
I know that every person has some mistake. Therefore, I thought that it’s necessary to speak on this issue. Because, this is an issue where women generally make mistakes. If you want to change any habit of your husband then first stop correcting him. Because, like this, you invade his ego.
If you want to change your man, focus on changing your daily life pattern. This simple method will change your husband in such comfortable way that you’ll be shocked.
For example: If your husband doesn’t take interest in you, you should change your daily life patterns and activities. Wear new colors, change your clothing style, try to make new dishes, change the time you eat, change your daily routine, use candles, or have new hobbies. When you change your daily life patterns, everything goes in your favor – your husband changes automatically.
“If you want to see the immediate effect of this tip, just change your hair style – you’ll see a gleam of love in his eyes for you.”
In order to scatter the moonlight of happiness and love – in your relationship – take these three steps immediately.
Step 1: Don’t Play Hard to Get, Play Hard to Forget… Always wear what he loves, be a great cook, and give him outstanding sex. These three things are the fundamental needs of men.
Step 2: Look For New Ways to Love Him… Sleep in his shirt, dance in flower fields with him, paint each other, offer up a massage, smell the flowers, kiss him before he finishes his sentence, or tell him unique stories of your daily life.
Step 3: Focus on the Pattern, Not the Person… Wear new colors, change your clothing style, try to make new dishes, change the time you eat, change your daily routine, use candles, or have new hobbies. Most importantly, “Change your Hair Style Now!”
Author Bio: If you want to make your man worship you, Read Bill Hamilton’s blog at: http://www.beingelite.com. He loves coming up with new ideas and figuring out how to apply them; He also works with individuals, couples, and entrepreneurs to help them accomplish their ambitions. You can read his blog at: http://www.beingelite.com
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